At a workshop recently, I was reminded of the power of our word, more specifically, of giving our word and keeping it. And I recognized that this is one of the key ways to stay abstinent: do what we say we are going to do—every time.
- If you tell your family you’re not going to eat sweets, don’t eat them.
- If you tell yourself you’re not going to snack, don’t snack.
- If you tell a friend you’ll call if you get into trouble with food, call your friend.
It’s that simple.
And yes, it’s not easy. We have to go against our addict brain that says it won’t matter. Not this one time. Or that we don’t really need help. But it does matter and we do need help.
Our brains are malleable. They can change. We can create new automatic habits, and keeping our word, to ourselves and others, is a tremendous step in the right direction.
It’s that powerful.
What is your relationship with keeping your word around food?
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